恋爱假期

卡梅隆迪亚兹家里有个按钮，按一下，窗子就全封闭了，不进光，跟黑天一样。
她本人就是这样一个女人，全自动的生活，缺乏惊喜。屋里的陈设也都黑白分明，带着女强人的范儿。
长期活在非女人状态下，让她有了许多不良症状，比如静下来的时候会突然听到电影片花的声音，比如她的泪腺出了状况，似乎是干涸了。但是显然没有。
但是女人终归是女人，摆不脱的浪漫情结。
她找了凯特温丝莱特换住处度假。
凑巧，凯特刚刚被人fire，而且泪腺极其发达，往往话没出口，胸腔已经喘个不止了。连居住的小屋也是一副我见犹怜的架势。
她的心里也有个情结，就是她熟知自己的渺小，并且习惯了这样的生活状态。
于是她来到卡梅隆的豪宅面前，有了脱胎换骨的感觉。

卡梅隆遇见了帅到没话说并丧妻带有两个女儿的裘德洛。
她向他说Hi，他说，咱们去ml，他们就去了。
帅哥美女就是好办事。

处处图新鲜的凯特，学雷锋做好事，帮助老头回家，（值得一提的是，那个老头子真可爱）顺便认识了胖墩子杰克布莱克。
他向她说Hi，他们什么都没干。因为男的不是帅哥。

故事两两展开，讲得特别乏味。
所有情节均不难想象，卡梅隆最后一定笑着哭，凯特一定笑着说不再哭。
编剧的能力很叫人鄙视，之所以给四颗星，完全是冲着四个主演，他们的表演支撑起了这么一个偶像剧。

提点意见，卡梅隆太老了一点，凯特呢，脸上的皱纹太多了一点，杰克自然是太胖了一点，至于裘德洛，实在是太帅了一点。真的，他好看得太过分了。
我要说一万遍：
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那变幻莫测的小眼神，魅力无边的笑容，你黄晓明学一万年也学不会！

一直很喜欢Kate Winslet 一个演技派 非常洒脱自然的女人！
也很喜欢Jude Law 因为他确实太帅了~

喜欢这部电影因为很喜欢它的剧本
所以在这一起share一下 经典的台词

其实开篇那段写的太美了 尤其是Kate来念
I have found almost everything ever written about love...to be true.
Shakespeare said,"Journeys end in lovers meeting."
What an extraordinary thought.
Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that...but I'm more than willing to believe
Shakespeare had.
I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should.
I'm constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives.
It was Shakespeare who also said,"Love is blind."
Now, that is something I know to be true.

For some, quite inexplicably...Love fades.
For others...Love is simply lost.
But then, of course,love can also be found.
Even if just for the night.
And then there's another kind of love.
The cruelest kind.
The one that almost kills its victims.
It's called unrequited love.
Of that, I am an expert..
Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other.
But what about the rest of us?What about our stories?
Those of us who fall in love alone.
We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
We are the cursed of the loved ones.
We are the unloved ones.
The walking wounded.
The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space.
Yes, you are looking at one such individual.
And I have willingly loved...that man for over three miserable years.
The absolute worst years of my life.
The worst Christmases,the worst birthdays.
New Year's Eves brought in by tears and Valium(安定).
These years I've been in love have been the darkest days of my life...all because I'm cursed by being
in love with a man who does not...and will not love me back.
Oh, God, just the sight of him.
Heart. pounding, throat thickening,absolutely can't swallow.
All the usual symptoms.

Iris约Arthur一起吃晚饭 Arthur说的话是那么的通透
As a matter of fact, he is A huge schmuck.
How did you know?He let you go.
This is not a hard one to figure out.
Iris, in the movies we have leading ladies...and we have the best friend.
You, I can tell, are a leading lady.But for some reason,you're behaving like the best friend.
You're so right.
You're supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake.
Arthur, l've been going to a therapist for three years.And she's never explained anything to me that well.

Iris安慰Miles那段对话也十分的睿智经典
I know it's hard to believe people when they say, "l know how you feel."
But I actually know how you feel.
（You see...I was...seeing someone back in London.
We worked for the same newspaper.And then I found out that he was also seeing this other girl, Sarah...from the Circulation Department
on the 19th floor.It turned out that he wasn't in love with me like I thought.）
What l'm trying to say is...I understand feeling as small and as insignificant...as humanly possible.
How it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you.
It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get...
or gyms you join...
or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends.
You still go to bed every night going over every detail...and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
And how in the hell, for that brief moment...you could think that you were that happy?
And sometimes you can even convince yourself...that he'll see the light and show up at your door.
And after all that...however long "all that" may be...you'll go somewhere new.
And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again.
And little pieces of your soul will finally come back.
And all that fuzzy stuff...those years of your life that you wasted...
that will eventually begin to fade.
...

  说实话，一直以为这是个很肥皂的电影，但是因为凯特 温丝莱特，（好吧，我承认是冲着她去的。）多了些高贵和温馨。
  一直把《那段场景记在脑子里。 温丝莱特对那个男人说一切结束了，你再也不会成为我人生的重点了。然后是如此开心地把他推出去，像从牢里解脱般伸出双臂拥抱这个世界。
   一直记着这个场景，因为那种感觉是那样富有神迹，似乎很美好很美好。她的深呼吸，似乎在说这一瞬间我才体会到了自己的美丽，自己的价值是那么宽广，不只是限于这个男人。
   想起林徽因说，生活比爱情更宽广。
   曾经执着过的，曾经为之把自己压得很低很低的，曾经以为这是一生的价值即使受苦亦是光荣的。
   可是，总会有那一刻真相顿悟。原来这个男人根本配不上自己，维持彼此关系的只是自己那一点点小小的不肯澄清的misapprehension,像一点点微弱的火焰，风一吹就会毁灭，然后一切回到黑暗。也许，那一刻，当Jasper说话的时候不小心吹来了一阵风吧。这么美好的自己，我却捧在你面前，任你忽视，只有需要我的时候你会说I need you.
   多美的爱瑞斯，老人说，you,are supposed to be the leader,but for some reason,you make yourself a bestfriend.她美丽，热忱，用心去爱这个世界，包括那个戳戳的根本配不上她的Jasper,“If you are a song,I will just use the good tone."Jack Black这样对她说。
   女人，何苦这样，一日日，一时时，一刻刻重复着，为了不知道珍惜自己的人而把自己压得如此如此之低。"You make me think that's all my fault,'cause I too much love you!"当凯特这样说的时候，那个男人傻傻地看着她，呵，他其实从来没进过她的内心。所以，她可以超开心地说-----oh,it's over!
  深呼吸，你闻到这空气的味道了么？有一种来自更远的吸引，总是带着新鲜，总是有着希望。
   有另一种生活你可以获得的，只要那一刻你悟到了，天地便刹那间宽广了。
   也许是上帝的安排，让你在某一瞬间陷入万劫不复，在另一瞬间让你瞬间开悟，原来事情是这样的，他是这样估量你的价值的，生活是这样的。
   傻过，也就过了。悟到了，伤痛都如财富般发光。
   然后，去做自己该做的事情，那些更宽广的生活，那双你遗失在时空里的干净得令人心颤的眼睛。
  把爱瑞斯躺在沙发上说的话送给大家吧，不深刻，但那是一个用心生活的女人的期许。她总是相信美好的。Always.
  Well,what I'm trying to say is that I understand your feelings as small and insignificant in a human's ever small.And how can you ache when you don't know what's inside you?And it doesn't matter how many hair-cuts you get,at what gym you joint,how many wines you drink with your girlfriends,you still go to bed every night comes every details .You wonder what you did wrong and how you can misunderstand him,and how in that breath moment you could think you were that happy.Sometimes you could even convinced yourself that he will see the light and show up your door.
  And after all that,how ever long of that maybe,you will go somewhere new,and you will meet people someone makes you feel worthwhile again.All pieces of your soul will finally come back.And all that fuzz stuff,those years of your life wasted that will eventually bagan to fade.

part 1 　
IRIS: I have found aImost everything
　　ever written about Iove to be true.
　　我发现所有关于爱情的描述都是真的
　　Shakespeare said, "Journeys end in Iovers meeting."莎士比亚曾说“恋人总在旅程的终点相会”
　　Oh, what an extraordinary thought!
　　真浪漫的想法
　　PersonaIIy, I have not experienced
　　anything remoteIy cIose to that,
　　虽然我从来没有过这种经验
　　but I'm more than wiIIing
　　to beIieve Shakespeare had.
　　但是我相信莎翁有过
　　I suppose I think about Iove
　　more than anyone reaIIy shouId.
　　我对爱情一向比别人想得更多
　　I'm constantIy amazed by its sheer power
　　to aIter and define our Iives.
　　也深切地相信爱情能改变人生
　　It was Shakespeare who aIso said,
　　"Love is bIind."莎士比亚也说：“爱情是盲目的”
　　Now that is something I know to be true.
　　这一点我肯定是真的
　　For some, quite inexpIicabIy, Iove fades.
　　不知道为什么，对某些人来说
　　爱情是渐渐消逝
　　For others, Iove is simpIy Iost.
　　其他人则是完全失去爱情
　　But then, of course, Iove can aIso be found,
　　但是有些人能够轻易找到爱情
　　even if just for the night.
　　就算只是一夜情
　　And then there's another kind of Iove,
　　当然还有另一种爱情
　　the crueIIest kind,
　　最残酷的那一种
　　the one that aImost kiIIs its victims.
　　足以让人痛不欲生
　　It's caIIed unrequited Iove.那就是单恋
　　Of that, I am an expert.我就是这方面的专家
　　Most Iove stories are about peopIe
　　who faII in Iove with each other,
　　爱情故事通常讲的是两个人相爱
　　but what about the rest of us?
　　但是像我们这种人呢？
　　What about our stories,
　　我们的故事很少被提起
　　those of us who faII in Iove aIone?
　　孤独地坠入爱河
　　We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
　　我们是单恋的苦主
　　We are the cursed of the Ioved ones.
　　也是受诅咒的受害者
　　We are the unIoved ones,
　　更是没人疼没人爱的可怜虫
　　the waIking wounded,
　　the handicapped without the advantage
　　of a great parking space.
　　就像找不到停车位的残障人士
　　Yes, you are Iooking at one such individuaI
　　像我这样的一个女子
　　and I have wiIIingIy Ioved that man
　　for over three miserabIe years,
　　我死心塌地单恋那个男人
　　过了三年的痛苦人生
　　the absoIute worst years of my Iife.
　　我这一生最惨痛的日子
　　The worst Christmases, the worst birthdays,
　　耶诞节很难熬、过生日没人陪
　　New Year's Eves brought in by tears and VaIium.
　　除夕只能放声大哭、狂吞镇静剂
　　These years that I've been in Iove have been the darkest days of my Iife,
　　身陷在黑暗的枷锁中
　　aII because I've been cursed by being in Iove with a man
　　因为我无可救药的爱上一个男人
　　who does not and wiII not Iove me back.
　　却没得到相同的回报
　　Oh, God, just the sight of him.
　　我光是看到他
　　Heart pounding, throat thickening,
　　absoIuteIy can't swaIIow.
　　心脏就狂跳、喉咙干到无法吞咽
　　AII the usuaI symptoms.
　　全都是单相思的症状

part 2

    -Why do l always fall for the bad girl?
　　-You didn't know she was a bad girl.
　　我怎么老是爱错人？
　　你不知道她这么糟
　　l knew she wasn't good.
　　我知道她不是好东西
　　Do you have anything a little bit stronger?
　　你有更烈一点的饮料吗？
　　Thank you. Let me rephrase this.
　　谢谢你，我这么说好了
　　Why am l attracted to a person
　　l know isn't good?
　　为什么我老是爱错人？
　　l happen to know the answer to this.
　　Because you're hoping you're wrong,
　　我刚好知道答案
　　因为你祈求上苍是自己弄错了
　　and every time she does something
　　that tells you she's no good, you ignore it,
　　她对你坏，你故意忽视
　　and every time she comes through
　　and surprises you, she wins you over
　　她对你好，你就完全的死心塌地
　　and you lose that argument with yourself
　　that she's not for you.
　　完全没想到其实是她不适合你

part 3

      I understand feeling as small
　　and as insignificant as humanly possible,
　　我了解那种渺小又微不足道的感受
　　and how it can actually ache in places
　　that you didn't know you had inside you,
　　就算遍体鳞伤也要故作坚强
　　and it doesn't matter
　　how many new haircuts you get
　　不管换了几个新发型
　　or gyms you join or how many glasses of
　　chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,
　　或是去健身或是和姊妹淘喝白酒
　　you still go to bed every night
　　going over every detail,
　　日日夜夜都仍在回想着每个细节
　　and wonder what you did wrong
　　or how you could have misunderstood.
　　纳闷自己到底哪里错了，哪里误解了
　　And how in the hell, for that brief moment,
　　you could think that you were that happy?
　　最后自问怎么会把短暂的欢愉
　　错当成永久的快乐
　　And sometimes you can even
　　convince yourself that he'll see the light
　　有时候会说服自己
　　and show up at your door.
　　他会想清楚回来的
　　(SlGHS)
　　And after all that,
　　however long all that may be,
　　经历过这一切后
　　you'll go somewhere new
　　人还是会重新开始
　　and you'll meet people
　　who make you feel worthwhile again,
　　再遇到值得付出的人
　　and little pieces of your soul
　　will finally come back.
　　然后一点一点地重拾自信
　　And all that fuzzy stuff,
　　而那些模糊的回忆
　　those years of your life that you wasted,
　　那么多年浪费掉的人生
　　that will eventually begin to fade.
　　终究会开始消逝

整部片子给我留下最深印象的是那个伦敦附近的小镇．

亲爱的，闭上眼睛你能想到什么？

壁炉的温暖，热可可的纯厚还是纸人先生的幽默呢？

好吧，所以她在１５岁后终于又一次热泪盈眶．．．不同于多年前父母的离异所带来的悲伤这次是因为感动．当她喝到同样放了５颗蜜饯果子的热可可的时候；当小女孩告诉她她可以留下睡在神秘的小帐篷里的时候；当纸人先生轻轻触碰到她手的时候．．．我想那个时候她的心已经融化了．她开始渐渐接受不再防备和不断克制自己的感情．以至于当汽车司机说开回去会很慢的时候她毅然决定要跑着回去．尽管她的鞋跟实在高的吓人～

如画般的田园小镇，格子围巾以及木头小屋．．．．它们真的很英伦

雪天里的小镇，还有什么是不可能的呢？

因为它温馨得很有道理．
　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　好了，到这里吧，就到这里了

　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　晚安，各位

   关于这部电影,打动我的并不是爱情,而是人如何从困境中走出来并且重新认识自己。
   片子的两个女人亚曼达和艾丽丝都是情场失意的女子，表面上看来她们的处境是很不同的：一个是因为自己的强势导致男友无法忍受而在外偷腥，就算是亚曼达赶他出门时，他还在为自己辩解（虽然最后无奈地承认了事实）；另一个是自己深爱的男友却光明正大的在你面前和别人在一起，甚至他到宣布自己结婚后还可以轻易的要求你继续充当他随时可以利用的避风港。这是一个身处弱势的女人。但是深层一点看，她们却是有着同样的问题：并没有真正认识自己的内心，不知道自己的爱是什么样子。亚曼达很想为失去的爱情哭泣，可事实是在她父亲离婚离家，拿走过道的行李箱之后，她就再也挤半点眼泪了；艾丽丝则总是为那个用电子邮件和电话短信追踪自己的男人心烦意乱。
   可以说这个片子里的人，两两具有相似的地方。上面说的是同样作为女人的亚曼达和艾丽斯。接下来是老亚瑟和艾丽斯，亚瑟对于像他致敬的晚会，他是拒绝的，原因是他的不自信，他说他不愿意自己无法走上舞台上，也不愿意只对着台下寥寥几个人发言。但是他却让艾丽丝看自己推荐的片子，那里面的女人都自信优雅，具有超越常人的力量，这最后也改变了艾丽丝。对于他自己他却不了解，他的症结和艾丽丝是一样的。在艾丽丝和麦尔斯的共同努力下，这老头也终于获得了自信，能够轻盈地跳（跳舞）上舞台，侃侃而谈。亚瑟和艾丽丝在影片的结尾完成了互相的拯救。
   麦尔斯的感情经历和艾丽丝有着相似之处，影片安排在致敬晚会开始前艾丽丝和找上门来的那个坏男人的对谈和麦尔斯坐在女友玛姬面前听其道歉的桥段同时进行，到后来两人在晚会上的相视而笑正是为了突现他们之间的这种相似点，以及对于错误感情的解脱和自我救赎。
   亚曼达和葛汉柏都是对自己要求严格的人。亚曼达在遭遇背叛后大声对自己说冷静冷静，葛汉柏让自己成为好爸爸、好编辑和好男人的愿望始终沉重的压迫着他，他们的相遇和相爱是注定的，因为他们可以在对方身上看到彼此的痛苦。
   虽然我不敢说他们真的从此以后就能幸福快乐的生活在一起，但至少我们要相信自我的力量，也要相信别人的力量。这些都可以帮助我们更清晰的认识自己，并且从困境中解脱吧。